resolute to love

I’m coming for you.


Unfortunately, 2012 has been the year for heartache in my life.  I had some small relationships come and go, and some loved ones pass on- but this year, I won’t accept anything less than you.  Prepare yourself, I’m coming for you.

While many of us make resolutions in the new year, to me, 2013 marks a milestone in my love life; she just doesn’t know it yet.  But she will, even if it kills me!  This is my new year declaration, I’m like Babe Ruth calling my shot.

I promise you I will be the best man I can be this year.

I promise I will find you, and do whatever it takes to make you the center of my world.

I promise to hold you in my arms, tighter than you’ve ever been held and to protect you at all costs.

I will put my life on the line and die for you if I must.

I promise to love you unconditionally and without doubt or question.

I promise you acceptance in all aspects of your life.

I promise to be your knight when you need to fight, your crutch when you’re too tired to stand, and your light when you’re scared or have doubts.

I promise to put your feelings before my own, and to support you in whatever path you choose in life- even if it’s not my path, because seeing you happy means more than ending my search.

I promise to grow old with you, and still hold your hand up until our last breath.


Welcome to the new year, Love.  These are my promises to you.  If you’re out there reading this, just sit tight, I will find you.  You have my word.


27 comments on “resolute to love

  1. Very romantic 🙂 good luck…

  2. may you be blessed to find your love this year…
    just remember, sometimes it’s not all stars and birds singing and hearts a flutter from the moment you meet….sometimes it starts just as friends 🙂

    • Thank you, and may your new year also be full of love and passion. In whatever capacity, I hope my love is my best friend. I hope we can have that kind of connection.

  3. I’d say you’re halfway through your vows. The other half is finding her and letting her know. Good luck!

  4. Someday I will meet someone like that. May God bless you this year.

  5. this is beautiful. good luck 🙂

  6. Beautiful! I know that you will find her! Best wishes.

  7. Great post. I thought a lot about similar topics today. You’ll find HER… Thanks for the inspiration today! There’s always a good reason to smile, I had a great friend tell me today.

    • Thank you for all the kind words! I hope I do find her soon. There’s so much I want to share with her- and I agree with your friend, there is ALWAYS a good reason to smile. Hope you have the best day of your life today.

  8. […] I finally got home, and read a great blog by A Hot Cup of Love, called resolute to love.  It was inspiring.  The post articulated the things I’ve thought recently and want to give […]

    • Your future love is out there if you haven’t found her already- don’t give her a chance to slip away. Be confident and charming. Smile all day, because at some point she’s going to notice you before you notice her, and you want her to see your best side. Good luck and thank you again!

  9. Thanks for liking my blog. Went to check yours out and it seems we have the same resolutions this new year. 🙂 Searching for love isn’t easy, but I know it is worth it. Good luck!

  10. Thanks for checking out our blog!
    Yours is absolutely amazing 🙂

    XOXO S & J


    • Thank you! I find your post completely relatable and relevant. It’s about time someone said that stuff- man, I can’t tell you how much I dislike the “duckface”. haha

  11. Very sweet.. good luck.. thanks for following

  12. Like a magnet, may you draw love to you always. And may “she” come in one of those pulls.

    You are open, that is the first and most important step. The trick is to remain open and accepting for all that comes your way.

    I predict you will be flooded with love in the new year.


  13. Oh man. This is very sweet. God will lead you right to her, don’t worry! In the mean time, keep on working on being the best man you can be, before you get distracted by her 🙂

  14. Very sweet ..good luck!

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