What if you could pick up the girl of your dreams just by shaking her hand?
Wait! Wait! Hear me out!
I know this is going to sound absolutely ridiculous, especially to all you women, but I swear this works. At least, in my experiences it has worked- and I would give it a success rate of roughly 85%, which may not sound too promising but honestly, when you’re looking for companionship you’ll try anything.
So you see a girl at the bar, you’ve taken a liking to her, and you’re looking for a way to break the ice. Tell the bartender you would like to buy her next drink and to let her know you sent it over. When she gets the drink, if she has any class, she’ll smile, wave, and thank you. That’s simple enough. Now go introduce yourself with confidence, like meeting a new client at work. Smile, eye contact, and a firm hand shake. The first two come standard, but here’s the important part- the secret handshake of love. Don’t tell anyone!
The handshake starts out like any normal handshake- open palm, thumb pointed to the ceiling, inviting, and not rigid. You grasp their hand firmly, because a firm handshake is a sign of confidence. Don’t hold their hand any longer than you would an important client and make sure you look them in the eyes, and smile. Now here’s where we separate the men from the boys.
As the handshake is coming to a close, and your hands begin to pull back, slightly -and I emphasize ever so slightly- begin tilting your hand while still grasping hers so that your palm is now facing the ceiling and your thumb is pointing to the right. As your hands continue to retract, allow your fingers to curl up and graze her fingertips. That’s all there is to it. So, how does that help me, you ask?
The theory behind this is that the handshake, eye contact, and smile are all very common forms of greeting, thus women find it less threatening and more comfortable. Though she may not be aware of it, while your fingertips slide past hers, you are actually sending a subliminal message to her brain that you’re interested in her.
Don’t believe me? Try it next time you’re out and let me know how it works out for you. As I mentioned, I have had success with this, so it’s not complete bollocks.